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		<title>By: ChiliMac</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29747</link>
		<dc:creator>ChiliMac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 21:42:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sure ask your friends. There is not reason not to as long as you are willing to accept a new.

My big problem with comments is tracking them. I use co.mments.com which is nice. But I have to remember to track the comments and if I&#039;m doing it from work I can&#039;t use the service because it&#039;s blocked. Wish I had a better way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure ask your friends. There is not reason not to as long as you are willing to accept a new.</p>
<p>My big problem with comments is tracking them. I use co.mments.com which is nice. But I have to remember to track the comments and if I&#8217;m doing it from work I can&#8217;t use the service because it&#8217;s blocked. Wish I had a better way.</p>
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		<title>By: mike</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29397</link>
		<dc:creator>mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 23:06:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>100 videos!!! That&#039;s impressive. Hmm... I dunno&#039;, it&#039;s a tough call on whether it&#039;s fine to ask - I mean I guess it is, in the way you are asking it here. You are just curious as to what things people like... what they want to see more of. I feel bad cause I&#039;m so addicted to my RSS reader (which is a desktop reader) that sometimes I don&#039;t always follow back to the site to comment. And I hate that, I feel so lazy... and just... it&#039;s bad internet etiquette... 

I think a lot of people in this space feel busier and busier... and I think that&#039;s a bad thing in a lot of ways. 

Okay... I think, cause what you said I&#039;ve seen it a lot on other places, I think asking the question is better if you put in the perspective of &quot;why are we commenting less, watching less, interacting less...?&quot; 

I don&#039;t know but I think you do great vlogs - you are one of the best vloggers out there Clintus... so... just keep doing what you&#039;re doing. And that includes asking the question you&#039;re asking here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>100 videos!!! That&#8217;s impressive. Hmm&#8230; I dunno&#8217;, it&#8217;s a tough call on whether it&#8217;s fine to ask &#8211; I mean I guess it is, in the way you are asking it here. You are just curious as to what things people like&#8230; what they want to see more of. I feel bad cause I&#8217;m so addicted to my RSS reader (which is a desktop reader) that sometimes I don&#8217;t always follow back to the site to comment. And I hate that, I feel so lazy&#8230; and just&#8230; it&#8217;s bad internet etiquette&#8230; </p>
<p>I think a lot of people in this space feel busier and busier&#8230; and I think that&#8217;s a bad thing in a lot of ways. </p>
<p>Okay&#8230; I think, cause what you said I&#8217;ve seen it a lot on other places, I think asking the question is better if you put in the perspective of &#8220;why are we commenting less, watching less, interacting less&#8230;?&#8221; </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know but I think you do great vlogs &#8211; you are one of the best vloggers out there Clintus&#8230; so&#8230; just keep doing what you&#8217;re doing. And that includes asking the question you&#8217;re asking here.</p>
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		<title>By: richard</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29390</link>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 13:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Clintus,

First of all, sure ask a friend anything - they&#039;re friends.

Second, it&#039;s interesting that you posted this video. I started subscribing to your videos during vlog week; also, for the first time in a year or more, I caught up with videos in my feed, and, I always say, I&#039;ll start commenting, so, well, this is sort of meta.

Third, I love comments, and I hardly ever ever get any on any of my videos any more and I feel sorry for myself, and, when I came to comment on this video, I thought, wow, he got 10 comments, maybe I should make a video about comments. But, then, I ask myself, how often to do I comment, and, well, I hardly ever ever comment anymore - partly because I watch via iTunes on TV and the system is not designed to support interaction - also, because, somewhere along the line I started figuring that I had enough people watching me that I could not post much, not interact much, etc., and everybody would keep commenting and watching ... not realizing it was all about the interaction - the community, that&#039;s what is fun, and that&#039;s what it&#039;s all about (I&#039;ve come to realize for me, anyway).

I enjoy watching your videos because it reminds me of 2005 (100 video blog years ago), when people spent more time telling their own stories and watched other people&#039;s stories and they interacted via comments, the video blogging list, and even the videos themselves were more connected - I see you participating a lot now in all these areas and it&#039;s fun to watch. So, I&#039;m totally watching and enjoying, and posting long rambling comments ... Richard</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clintus,</p>
<p>First of all, sure ask a friend anything &#8211; they&#8217;re friends.</p>
<p>Second, it&#8217;s interesting that you posted this video. I started subscribing to your videos during vlog week; also, for the first time in a year or more, I caught up with videos in my feed, and, I always say, I&#8217;ll start commenting, so, well, this is sort of meta.</p>
<p>Third, I love comments, and I hardly ever ever get any on any of my videos any more and I feel sorry for myself, and, when I came to comment on this video, I thought, wow, he got 10 comments, maybe I should make a video about comments. But, then, I ask myself, how often to do I comment, and, well, I hardly ever ever comment anymore &#8211; partly because I watch via iTunes on TV and the system is not designed to support interaction &#8211; also, because, somewhere along the line I started figuring that I had enough people watching me that I could not post much, not interact much, etc., and everybody would keep commenting and watching &#8230; not realizing it was all about the interaction &#8211; the community, that&#8217;s what is fun, and that&#8217;s what it&#8217;s all about (I&#8217;ve come to realize for me, anyway).</p>
<p>I enjoy watching your videos because it reminds me of 2005 (100 video blog years ago), when people spent more time telling their own stories and watched other people&#8217;s stories and they interacted via comments, the video blogging list, and even the videos themselves were more connected &#8211; I see you participating a lot now in all these areas and it&#8217;s fun to watch. So, I&#8217;m totally watching and enjoying, and posting long rambling comments &#8230; Richard</p>
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		<title>By: Clintus</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29375</link>
		<dc:creator>Clintus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 00:15:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Rob B</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29374</link>
		<dc:creator>Rob B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 22:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve watched all your videos.

I&#039;m usually watching them in iTunes which doesn&#039;t provide a way to comment easily. I also take a lot of podcasts with me and watch them on my iPod during my commute back and forth to work on the train. I rarely comment on videos now that I think about it. I know that on blogs, I have to enter my name, email, website and I wonder if my comment is important enough to take the time to do that. I&#039;m more likely to comment on a site like Flickr which I&#039;m ALWAYS logged into and ALWAYS checking out. I think it&#039;s simply an &quot;ease of use&quot; issue.

Ya know what we need...

A universal system like Digg that people can &quot;mark as watched&quot; with a simple click of the mouse. I think I could handle that. I wouldn&#039;t mind people knowing that I watch their videos, I would up for it.

Keep up the good work buddy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve watched all your videos.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m usually watching them in iTunes which doesn&#8217;t provide a way to comment easily. I also take a lot of podcasts with me and watch them on my iPod during my commute back and forth to work on the train. I rarely comment on videos now that I think about it. I know that on blogs, I have to enter my name, email, website and I wonder if my comment is important enough to take the time to do that. I&#8217;m more likely to comment on a site like Flickr which I&#8217;m ALWAYS logged into and ALWAYS checking out. I think it&#8217;s simply an &#8220;ease of use&#8221; issue.</p>
<p>Ya know what we need&#8230;</p>
<p>A universal system like Digg that people can &#8220;mark as watched&#8221; with a simple click of the mouse. I think I could handle that. I wouldn&#8217;t mind people knowing that I watch their videos, I would up for it.</p>
<p>Keep up the good work buddy!</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29371</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 22:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess I wouldnt really consider myself one of your friends however I do watch all your videos. Maybe you could say that I&#039;m a fan of your stuff since I&#039;m subscribed to your stuff :) I dont comment on all of the ones I watch but do on the ones that move me to say something. Like this one. This one asks for and provokes a conversation. Sometimes a video doesnt need a response. Sometimes it&#039;s just there for the pleasure of viewing. Sometimes, a video says all that&#039;s needed to be said. I understand where you are coming from though. Comments are gold and help knowing what people think about what you created.

Twitter may have changed things but I dont see too many commenting on peoples videos on Twitter. I see more announcements that people have created a video there. Those announcements, be them from Twitterfeed or a manual announcement, are in a way of asking people to watch their videos. Do I see anything wrong with you asking your friends to watch your newest video? No. Not really. I would question if it was needed? I kinda go with the train of thought that my friends will watch either when I first post the video or will eventually watch it if they are subscribed to me. I hope that they watch my stuff but if they dont then there really aint much I can do about it.

I wouldnt sweat it. There are people that are watching. Those that arent are missing some really great stuff :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess I wouldnt really consider myself one of your friends however I do watch all your videos. Maybe you could say that I&#8217;m a fan of your stuff since I&#8217;m subscribed to your stuff <img src='http://idoitdigital.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I dont comment on all of the ones I watch but do on the ones that move me to say something. Like this one. This one asks for and provokes a conversation. Sometimes a video doesnt need a response. Sometimes it&#8217;s just there for the pleasure of viewing. Sometimes, a video says all that&#8217;s needed to be said. I understand where you are coming from though. Comments are gold and help knowing what people think about what you created.</p>
<p>Twitter may have changed things but I dont see too many commenting on peoples videos on Twitter. I see more announcements that people have created a video there. Those announcements, be them from Twitterfeed or a manual announcement, are in a way of asking people to watch their videos. Do I see anything wrong with you asking your friends to watch your newest video? No. Not really. I would question if it was needed? I kinda go with the train of thought that my friends will watch either when I first post the video or will eventually watch it if they are subscribed to me. I hope that they watch my stuff but if they dont then there really aint much I can do about it.</p>
<p>I wouldnt sweat it. There are people that are watching. Those that arent are missing some really great stuff <img src='http://idoitdigital.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rick Rey</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29367</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick Rey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 18:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I notice that people who vlog less often tend to get more comments. Also the content of the video may illicit a discussion, too e.g. are you asking questions, is the topic controversial, did something outrageous happen? I know it can be frustrating to not get comments -- but it definitely doesn&#039;t mean people aren&#039;t watching! I watch but I rarely comment.

In response to whether you should email friends, I think if you want honest feedback you&#039;ll need some sort of anonymous feedback form or survey. Otherwise friends will just be nice. Friends are good that way.

Personally speaking I don&#039;t feel the need to comment often because I feel relatively connected to you in terms of Twitter, how often you post videos, and all the networks I see you on. So yes, I think the Twitter culture has had a huge impact on the videoblogging community. Less comments don&#039;t necessarily equate to diminished connections. I remember the time when comments were all we had.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I notice that people who vlog less often tend to get more comments. Also the content of the video may illicit a discussion, too e.g. are you asking questions, is the topic controversial, did something outrageous happen? I know it can be frustrating to not get comments &#8212; but it definitely doesn&#8217;t mean people aren&#8217;t watching! I watch but I rarely comment.</p>
<p>In response to whether you should email friends, I think if you want honest feedback you&#8217;ll need some sort of anonymous feedback form or survey. Otherwise friends will just be nice. Friends are good that way.</p>
<p>Personally speaking I don&#8217;t feel the need to comment often because I feel relatively connected to you in terms of Twitter, how often you post videos, and all the networks I see you on. So yes, I think the Twitter culture has had a huge impact on the videoblogging community. Less comments don&#8217;t necessarily equate to diminished connections. I remember the time when comments were all we had.</p>
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		<title>By: David Meade</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29366</link>
		<dc:creator>David Meade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 17:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(oh for the record, you&#039;re not on the &#039;I only go there thanks to twitter&#039; list. :-)  I see now that you did post this to twitter, but I saw this video (and your others) because I&#039;ve subscribed to you at Vimeo and MeFeedia)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(oh for the record, you&#8217;re not on the &#8216;I only go there thanks to twitter&#8217; list. <img src='http://idoitdigital.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   I see now that you did post this to twitter, but I saw this video (and your others) because I&#8217;ve subscribed to you at Vimeo and MeFeedia)</p>
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		<title>By: David Meade</title>
		<link>http://idoitdigital.com/2008/05/14/friends-and-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-29365</link>
		<dc:creator>David Meade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 17:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m pretty bad at staying up on commenting at people&#039;s sites even though I know full well how much I value comments/interaction on my stuff.  I often kick myself for not commenting more as its the best way to sort of reach out and establish relationships with other vloggers (and so I feel that I&#039;m cheating both the producer and myself by not commenting more often). 

I also tend to go in phases/groups with my viewing and commenting.  Although I have a very small list of vlogs that I watch constantly, I have a much larger list of vlogs that I often will go for several weeks or more before I go back and watch all the videos I&#039;ve missed in that time.  When I do go back and watch a few weeks worth of stuff, I probably wont comment on all of them (and sometimes don&#039;t even comment on any ... I really need and want to get better about that though.) I always feel bad about not commenting as often at these sites as they are vlogs I truly enjoy ... life just seems to limit my real-time-vlog-attention-span pretty severely at times.  Of course at the other extreme there are the vlogs that I only really see when they come up in twitter/etc.  There are probably other &#039;categories&#039; ... but basically I often play catch up on vlogs (even ones I really enjoy) and thus fail to comment as much as I should.

I do think twitter and the like have changed the dynamic a bit, but comments are still the gold standard if you ask me.

I think you can email your friends and ask for feedback.  I mean in the end - however narcissistic vlogging may seem - we all do this for our friends and the group of folks who watch us.  I don&#039;t see anything wrong with asking &quot;what would help make you feel more engaged with my site&quot;.

- Dave</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m pretty bad at staying up on commenting at people&#8217;s sites even though I know full well how much I value comments/interaction on my stuff.  I often kick myself for not commenting more as its the best way to sort of reach out and establish relationships with other vloggers (and so I feel that I&#8217;m cheating both the producer and myself by not commenting more often). </p>
<p>I also tend to go in phases/groups with my viewing and commenting.  Although I have a very small list of vlogs that I watch constantly, I have a much larger list of vlogs that I often will go for several weeks or more before I go back and watch all the videos I&#8217;ve missed in that time.  When I do go back and watch a few weeks worth of stuff, I probably wont comment on all of them (and sometimes don&#8217;t even comment on any &#8230; I really need and want to get better about that though.) I always feel bad about not commenting as often at these sites as they are vlogs I truly enjoy &#8230; life just seems to limit my real-time-vlog-attention-span pretty severely at times.  Of course at the other extreme there are the vlogs that I only really see when they come up in twitter/etc.  There are probably other &#8216;categories&#8217; &#8230; but basically I often play catch up on vlogs (even ones I really enjoy) and thus fail to comment as much as I should.</p>
<p>I do think twitter and the like have changed the dynamic a bit, but comments are still the gold standard if you ask me.</p>
<p>I think you can email your friends and ask for feedback.  I mean in the end &#8211; however narcissistic vlogging may seem &#8211; we all do this for our friends and the group of folks who watch us.  I don&#8217;t see anything wrong with asking &#8220;what would help make you feel more engaged with my site&#8221;.</p>
<p>- Dave</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 16:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that folks are too busy, plain and simple.  I watch the vids, but often in chunks catching up because I just don&#039;t have time in my day to participate with anything outside my job.  At that point, is it still relevant for me to leave a comment?  And that&#039;s not even getting into my neurosis about having to leave a relevant, insightful comment.  

As far as asking your friends for input, why wouldn&#039;t you do that?  They&#039;re your friends, and they should be happy to be a resource.  Again, it might not be immediate feedback, but if you&#039;re calling folks friends of yours and vice versa, then part of that is being there to help each other out.  At least, that&#039;s how I feel about it.  

Matthew</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that folks are too busy, plain and simple.  I watch the vids, but often in chunks catching up because I just don&#8217;t have time in my day to participate with anything outside my job.  At that point, is it still relevant for me to leave a comment?  And that&#8217;s not even getting into my neurosis about having to leave a relevant, insightful comment.  </p>
<p>As far as asking your friends for input, why wouldn&#8217;t you do that?  They&#8217;re your friends, and they should be happy to be a resource.  Again, it might not be immediate feedback, but if you&#8217;re calling folks friends of yours and vice versa, then part of that is being there to help each other out.  At least, that&#8217;s how I feel about it.  </p>
<p>Matthew</p>
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